(MAY 24) Former boxer Mia
St. John won 49 fights during her pro career. She has held World
Boxing Council (WBC) and International Female Boxers Association
(IFBA) belts while prizefighting. And while she may not be
trading punches in the ring anymore, the champion is still
battling as she fights to raise awareness about mental health
issues.
Last night, the Southern
California activist joined actresses and fellow mental health
advocates Mariel Hemingway (her grandfather is Ernest Hemingway)
and Mädchen Amick (known for "Riverdale" and "Twin Peaks") on
stage at the WE RISE LA event held in downtown Los Angeles.
This powerful trio opened their hearts to the audience while
speaking about their own personal experiences in trying to
combat mental illness in their families. May is Mental Health
Awareness Month and this May 23 conversation "Addressing Serious
Mental Illness" featured an hour-long discussion on how to
recognize the symptoms, seek professional help, how to stop the
stigma of mental illness and so much more.
WE RISE LA is a pop-up immersive experience celebrating
diversity and collective power in the surrounding cities.
Thursday's seminar had a full house as the ladies shined on the
Main Hall Stage. Housed in a new venue this year, the roomy
soundstage had plenty seats plus cushions for those who wanted
to relax on the floor. There was also an onsite Art Gallery,
Community Hub, Breathing Room, Courtyard Patio, and an Art Lab
for making crafts.
Under the spotlight, the three women revealed the pain behind
their smiles. At first glance, these vibrant ladies all look
like they have perfect lives with fame, fortune and adoration.
Pretty and poised, sleek and slim, smart and funny, each
extremely successful in their own right But behind their
polished and public personas is a dark side. There is heartache
and heartbreak within their souls. Lurking behind their
beautiful eyes is a constant nagging pain that only they know
all too well.
Revealing their stories in front of spectators that hung on
their every word, these courageous beings spoke of their mental
health crises and tragedies that have occurred in their lives.
Mia's son, the talented artist
Julian St. John, committed suicide in November 2014. Suffering
from schizophrenic and addicted to meth, his young life was
taken too soon. His father and Mia's ex-husband Kristoff St.
John passed away in February of this year. Mia explained that
the beloved soap opera star was bipolar and an alcoholic (they
first met in an AA meeting). As the boxing star spoke of these
two heartbreaking tragedies, I could hear some in the crowd
gasp. The fact that she was standing before them and taking a
strong stance to help others immediately endeared herself to the
audience. And she had just got back to LA having appeared on the
TODAY Show the day before!
Actress Mädchen Amick spoke of her son's Sylvester Amick-Alexis
downward spiral with bipolar and how her family coped after
hearing the diagnosis. And moderator Mariel Hemingway is no
stranger to severe mental illness as well. Her legendary
grandfather, Ernest Hemingway, committed suicide, Mariel's
sister model/actress Margaux also committed suicide in 1996 and
their older sister Muffet has bipolar disorder and
schizophrenia.
And at the mic, Mia also disclosed she has faced anxiety
disorders or her own with OCD, alcoholism, eating disorders and
more.
This knockout trio chose to be transparent in the hopes of
bringing awareness to the stigma and discrimination against
those called "crazy," those suffering from depression, mental
illness, etc. They all spoke from the heart, their words and
recollections strong and powerful, resonating throughout the
crowd.
When I first heard of this talk about mental illness and knowing
of St. John's tragedies, I braced myself for an extremely sad
panel readying for the tears to flow, tissue ready at hand. And
while their stories are painful to hear, these brave warriors
infused so much hope, humor and compassion during their seminar
which made for a positive, informative, and hopeful discussion
that was both empowering and inspirational.
They spoke of their family's mental issues and breakdowns while
not sugar-coating any of the shocking details. They are choosing
to reach out and connect with strangers, choosing to be
transparent. There's that saying "If just one person is
helped..." and in their cases, Mia, Mariel and Mädchen are
helping countless people in facing their issues and perhaps even
saving lives in the future. They are helping others who may feel
helpless and alone.
It was a riveting session followed by an audience Q&A. Hands
shot up when it was time for questions. I've been to many Q&A
events, but last night's panel stood out to me. The questions
were impassioned, some desperate, some joyous, some filled with
pleas of how to help their loved ones.
There was a group of of young Latino psychiatrists who wanted to
know what more they could do to help; there was a Caucasian
rocker mom who had reached the breaking point with her son who's
suffering from mental health issues. A millennial girl proudly
took the microphone to say she is successfully fighting her
bipolar diagnosis and encouraged others to keep fighting the
battle; and an African-American woman also stood out for
expressing the fact she was formerly homeless and now
thriving–and specifically thanked Mia for her words of wisdom
through social media. All had different backgrounds, all
diverse. But all shared the same message: Seek Help. Find
Resources. Don't Give Up.
The atmosphere in the arena was fully charged with positive
vibes and ended on an upbeat note. There wasn't enough time to
get to everyone as their was another event following this panel,
but the ladies took time to meet the guests after their event.
It was a very special evening and a true honor to have witnessed
this powerful talk.
I caught up with Mia after the onstage panel. She introduced me
to a real success story–her friend Shane Van Peebles. Once
homeless, the young man is now doing great things in the
community and both he and Mia are involved with the Step Up on
Second program (helping those battle addiction, homelessness and
mental illness). Mia also has her own nonprofit foundation El
Saber Es Poder (Knowledge is Power).
The boxing champ continues to fight the good fight through her
activism, her foundation and personal appearances around the
globe. But the road has been rocky. After her ex-husband died,
St. John said she was twice placed in "5150" psychiatric holds
and also lost her 30-year sobriety as she tried to drown out the
pain and shock with booze. Every day is a battle she says. But
she is buoyed by her late mother's values; she spoke of how her
mom pushed, encouraged and believed in her so Mia carries on for
her own daughter, Paris St. John.
Taking a strong stance and firing back against mental illness,
Mia St. John is proving she is a true champion.